DAD

Yes as simple as that. Sometimes people assume the role of a dad is rather simple and I think in ways it's misunderstood. Many believe all a dad needs to do is pay the bills and the job function is complete. What some fail to understand is that paying bills is only one part of the equation.

A dad plays a vital role in a child's life. A child learns from mimicking its father; in other words the leading by example weighs heavily with the dad figure. When the mom needs a break there is dad. When mom needs help guiding a child; dad interprets life in a different way that helps that child learn and accept the lesson.

Dads may not admit it but they also want to be caregivers and be present in their child's life. The sad part is the way our society and economy has made the father figure to strictly be a provider when that is not all he is called to do.

Just like a mom undergoes transformation after childbirth and during pregnancy so does a dad. Dad must also take on a new role in life and figure out how to assist the mother in taking care of the baby, child rearing and the many decisions that they need to take after that.

The dictionary defines dad: protector, teacher and encourager; a person who picks you up when you fall, brushed you off and lets you try again; admired and much loved; often referred to as a son's first hero and daughter's first love.

I think some dads may not admit it but they want to be as involved if not more in their child's upbringing. Some wish they could spend more time with their kids and switch roles for a bit. To all those dads out there making an impact on their children's and spouse's lives- THANK YOU. We couldn't do it without you!!!

DAD & SON